Category: relationships

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E=MC2 & Why I’m Still Not Married

Ever since I passed that age 30+ mark, my friends and family have incessantly asked, “So… why aren’t you married yet?” I keep replying, “Because I don’t want to be;” but for some reason,...

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I’m a people watcher… not in a creepy way. I’m just a fan of sociology and the quirkiness of human behavior. I always wonder what people are thinking or why they make certain choices....

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Crowded by loneliness

Every morning while riding the train to work, I am surrounded by individuals attempting to remain solitary, anonymous, and oblivious. They listen to their IPOD’s and concentrate on their newspaper, book or cellphone conveniently...

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Why men cheat

For the purposes of this blog, let’s liken Cheating to the dormant genetic disease Eczema. Just as Eczema is a defect in the immune system, cheating is a defect in one’s morality which when triggered by stress, irritants, or changes in environment causes insatiable self-centeredness.


Sometimes lack of communication is key

Communication is key. We have all heard it before, but what does that really mean? Nothing. The cliché is incomplete and somewhat dangerous. Effective communication is much more important than just communicating. People communicate...

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Relationship Resumé

What is my objective?” Are you just floating along and playing it by ear? Or are you the type who has mentally mapped out your entire life, including a time frame?

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[Poem] 2 weeks notice

I have given you a gift that you did not want nor ask for. I have blamed you for neglecting and misusing a gift that I doubt you even knew you possessed.

The anti-social network: outsourcing romance 5

The anti-social network: outsourcing romance

We have been subjugated by success measurable only by material possessions, which has left our search for a life-long mate secondary to financial accomplishments.

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If you ask me, I’m ready

A good relationship is derived from a complex formula of personality, attraction and timing. Attractiveness and compatibility are solely based on your personal preferences. Some women adore a man with a sense of humor...

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The Way of Love

The one I love is incapable of ill will; is friendly and compassionate.  She lives beyond the reach of “I” and “mine” and of pleasure and pain. She is patient, contented, self-controlled, firm in...