Category: relationships

[Poem] Addiction 1

[Poem] Addiction

Addiction I remember… Ingesting you feverishly Feeling you reach down into my soul Yanking and pulling Expanding and contracting Until I became Free From worry Oblivious to suffering High From my own delusions I...

Try it before you buy it: The foreign language of love 0

Try it before you buy it: The foreign language of love

The current divorce rate in America is around 50%. The most common causes are lack of commitment, lack of communication, and/or lack of dedication. Your and your partners level of commitment, communication, and dedication can be tested and strengthened by learning a foreign language together. In order to learn a foreign language as a couple you will be forced to commit to something difficult, dedicate time, and practice teamwork while creating a special bond and experience.

The disconnect: Is money getting in the way of marriage? 0

The disconnect: Is money getting in the way of marriage?

A friend of mine has met and befriended her Mr. Perfect. They have similar lifestyles, religious beliefs, and have common life goals. There’s only one problem… He doesn’t want to enter into a serious relationship until he becomes Dr. Perfect.

Do Home Wreckers Really Exist? 12

Do Home Wreckers Really Exist?

Since the creation of marriage, married men (and women) have engaged in infidelity. If you follow Hip-hop, Pop or Politics, you can name a few publicized scandals. Shortly after affairs are revealed in the...

The D.E.N.N.I.S. system of seduction 4

The D.E.N.N.I.S. system of seduction

I’ve heard my female friends complain about some terrible guy that they were dating but kept going back to over and over against their own better judgment. It seemed like the unstable and emotionally draining nature of the relationship was intoxicating to the point of addiction. An episode of “It’s Always Sunny in Philadelphia” explored the D.E.N.N.I.S. system for manipulating women to become “crazy” in love. Is this merely fiction or would this work in reality?

[Inside the mind of a confused ex] The house party 9

[Inside the mind of a confused ex] The house party

[based on a true story] Recently Tim was invited to a house party by a woman whom he previously dated, on and off. To his knowledge, they were on good terms. Tim is not...

Inside the mind of a celibate man 12

Inside the mind of a celibate man

Jamal’s entire teenage and adult life has been dedicated to attracting women. Everything he can ever remembering doing has had that secret motive behind it.

The Perfect Mate vs. The Perfect Career. 4

The Perfect Mate vs. The Perfect Career.

I posed the question, Ladies: If you had to choose one, which would you pick: The perfect husband or a great career? And why? Here are the responses

The company you keep 3

The company you keep

When I graduated from Hampton University in 2003, most people who did not attend an HBCU had no idea what and/or where it is.  Sometimes I got an “Yeah, I’ve heard of that.” I...

A good girl with a secret 6

A good girl with a secret

Based on a true story Tamika has a dynamite personality. She’s funny, smart, sexy, and loves poetry. She rarely complains and is always willing to help those in need. Every guy she meets immediately...