Why men cheat



For the purposes of this blog, let’s liken cheating to the dormant genetic disease Eczema. Eczema is a slight defect in the immune system which when triggered by stress, irritants, or change in environment causes an insatiably itchy rash. As most people mature, their eczema diminishes and is less effected by triggers. Cheating is a defect in one’s morality which when triggered by stress, irritants, or changes in environment causes insatiable self-centeredness. Continue reading

Do Home Wreckers Really Exist?



Since the creation of marriage, married men (and women) have engaged in infidelity. If you follow Hip-hop, Pop or Politics, you can name a few publicized scandals. Shortly after affairs are revealed in the public eye, the “other woman” is crucified as a harlot and deemed a home wrecker. Have you ever discovered someone is the “other woman” and called her a whore or something worse? Yeah, me neither. :) Continue reading

Julie and the almost perfect guy

Based on a true story: My friend “Julie” has been dating this guy for a couple months. Things are going well. They have fun together and talk on the phone for hours every night…love is in the air. He seems to be a genuinely nice guy, which is rare in her experience. Julie starts to see some potential in this one and alerts her friends and family that she has met a “special” guy. Some of Julie’s friends come in town and the two make arrangements to have a small introduction get-together. On Friday, Julie calls her guy to confirm. He tells her that he’s going to meet her friends on Saturday and cook for her on Sunday. She’s swooning. Continue reading