For the purposes of this blog, let’s liken cheating to the dormant genetic disease Eczema. Eczema is a slight defect in the immune system which when triggered by stress, irritants, or change in environment causes an insatiably itchy rash. As most people mature, their eczema diminishes and is less effected by triggers. Cheating is a defect in one’s morality which when triggered by stress, irritants, or changes in environment causes insatiable self-centeredness. Continue reading
The following entry was originally posted on The Secret Life of Cees, a ground breaking and at times hilarious journal of the trials and triumphs of a young woman who was diagnosed with cervical cancer. Please take a moment to follow the links and check it out. You’ll laugh, you’ll cry and more importantly…. You’ll gain perspective. Continue reading
Jamal’s entire teenage and adult life has been dedicated to attracting women. Everything he can ever remembering doing has had that secret motive behind it. One day Jamal decides to do something he’s never done before… go 45 days without sex of any kind, including masturbation. Jamal learned many things about himself and women while on this difficult journey. Could you go 45 days without any sexual stimulation of any kind? Continue reading
Because it feels good!
Let’s dare to dig deeper, shall we? I posed this question to 25 African American women in their late 20′s / early 30′s: “Please answer this question as honestly as possible. Why do you have sex?” Here are some responses. Continue reading
Ancient cultures recognized that sex is one of the great creative forces which can only be truly appreciated by exploring its full potential. Tantra like yoga or Zen is a path to enlightenment which heightens and extends the special bond which exist between lovers during love making. Intercourse in Tantric sex has incredible spiritual meaning. An orgasm is seen a cosmic or divine experience. The Tantric teachers believe that sex should not just be a physical sensation but should be considered a deeply spiritual experience. In Tantra there is no specific physical goal in love making. There is just the experience of giving love and receiving love back. Continue reading